Compassionate Gifts

"It is better to give than receive." Ever heard that phrase? What do you think about the message? During the holiday season, we find many different opportunities to help others, give gifts, and do something good for someone else. We encourage co-workers at our business and children at their schools to donate food for the hungry, share coats to provide warmth, and buy gifts for those who might otherwise not have anything to open. Indeed, it makes sense to agree with the idea that giving is better than receiving. Giving makes the world a better place.

However, I think it is a very narrow-minded message. If we only emphasize the importance of giving, we may overlook how to receive. How many people allow themselves or know how to receive gifts, compliments, and/or gratitude? Allowing yourself to open up and receive is necessary in the process. The book, "Open You Life, Open Your Mind," cites the defining characteristic of true compassion is when the helper recognizes that he/she and the person being helped are equally in need of each other for their personal growth. In other words, both the giver and the receiver are blessed in the process.

Do you prefer to give or receive? Do you know how to both give and receive?

I like to think of laughter as a gift. In particular, GIGGLE… Gladly Inspire Gratitude, Grace, Love, & Encouragement (and don’t forget to laugh at yourself, too!)

Share a smile and GIGGLE :o)

Stop - Look - Listen

Stop. Look. and Listen! From children’s shows to the family dinner table and lessons from school, children have learned to stop, look, and listen before crossing the street. Three very simple words rooted in our minds for traffic safety. And when we take a closer look, they additionally apply so well to everyday living. How often do we stop, look, and listen as we go about our daily routine? Routine, in itself, lends to a more of a mindless set of habitual behavior requiring very little thought. Why do we need to pay attention to sipping coffee in the morning or savor the daily farewells like “have a good day” and “I love you.” In particular, how often do you notice the ongoing internal dialogue you have with yourself? What are the messages in your silent whispers?

What do you mutter to yourself when you first wake up in the morning? Without realizing it, you set the tone for your daily perspective. It truly doesn’t matter which side of the bed you step out from. What you whisper under your breath will frame your thoughts, behaviors, and reactions. I encourage you to take a moment, observe, and listen to your thoughts or breath whispers. Even at this very moment, what are you thinking as you read? Engage yourself in the small breaks of your day and observe your surroundings as you take your next water break at work or school. Intentionally choose to smile at yourself with your internal words and observe what happens when you reflect your thoughts in an outward way. May you find blessings, enthusiasm, and extra energy today.